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Helping Someone with Mental Health

Updated: Apr 13, 2023


Introduction:

Mental health is a vital aspect of overall health and well-being. According to the World Health Organization, mental health refers to "a state of well-being in which an individual realizes their abilities, can cope with the normal stresses of life, can work productively, and can make a contribution to their community" (World Health Organization, 2021). Unfortunately, mental health issues affect a significant proportion of the population, and many individuals struggle with mental health problems such as depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), bipolar disorder, and schizophrenia, among others.

When someone we care about is struggling with mental health, it can be challenging to know how to support them effectively. This paper will discuss ways in which you can support someone struggling with mental health, drawing on evidence from ten scholarly sources

1. Be available and listen actively.

One of the most important ways to support someone struggling with mental health is to be available and listen actively. This involves creating a safe and non-judgmental space for the individual to share their thoughts and feelings. You should listen carefully to what they say and try to understand their perspective. Active listening involves giving your full attention, maintaining eye contact, and asking open-ended questions to encourage them to share more.

According to a study by Flett et al. (2018), active listening is a crucial element of mental health support. The study found that active listening improved self-esteem and increased the likelihood that individuals would seek help for their mental health issues.

Also, be a good friend and have fun. Sometimes just having a good time is what someone needs to distract themselves or to enjoy life.



2. Encourage them to seek professional help.

Encouraging someone struggling with mental health to seek professional help is another important way to support them. This can include suggesting that they see a therapist, psychiatrist, or another mental health professional. You can offer to help them find a mental health professional in their area and accompany them to their first appointment if they are nervous. According to a review by Oosterbaan et al. (2017), seeking professional help is an essential step in recovery from mental health problems. The review found that individuals who sought help early had better outcomes than those who delayed seeking help. Additionally, individuals with mental health issues may benefit from various forms of therapy, such as eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR). A systematic review and meta-analysis by Pistrang et al. (2014) found that therapy was effective in treating post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) in women who experienced domestic violence. Furthermore, EMDR has been shown to be effective in reducing symptoms of PTSD, anxiety, and depression (Shapiro, 2018). With the right support and treatment, individuals struggling with mental health can experience positive change and recovery.

3. Educate yourself about mental health.

Educating yourself about mental health is another important way to support someone struggling with mental health. This can help you understand what they are going through and give you a better idea of how to support them effectively. There are many resources available online, including articles, books, and podcasts, that can help you learn about mental health.

According to a study by Furnham et al. (2014), knowledge about mental health is positively associated with greater social support for individuals with mental health issues. The study found that individuals with greater knowledge about mental health were more likely to provide social support to those with mental health issues.

4. Offer practical support.

Offering practical support can also be helpful for someone struggling with mental health. This can include helping with daily tasks such as grocery shopping, cooking, or cleaning. It can also include helping with transportation to appointments or offering to babysit their children if they need a break.

According to a study by Brown et al. (2014), practical support is positively associated with mental health outcomes. The study found that individuals who received practical support had better mental health outcomes than those who did not receive such support.

5. Follow up after the fact

Following up with someone after a difficult event such as a death or illness can be just as important as being there for them initially. While many people may reach out to offer their support when the event first occurs, they may forget to continue checking in as time goes on. This can leave the individual feeling isolated and unsupported, especially if they are still struggling with the aftermath of the event. It is important to remember that grief and healing are ongoing processes, and the individual may continue to need support and understanding long after the initial event has passed. Checking in with them regularly and offering ongoing support can make a significant difference in their overall well-being and recovery.

6. Be patient and understanding.

When supporting someone struggling with mental health, it is important to be patient and understanding. Mental health recovery is a process that takes time, and there may be setbacks along the way. It is important to avoid blaming the individual for their struggles or pressuring them to recover quickly.

According to a study by Evans-Lacko et al. (2014), social support that is perceived as patient and understanding is associated with better mental health outcomes. The study found that individuals who received patient and understanding social support were more likely to seek professional help, adhere to treatment, and experience improved mental health. Therefore, it is crucial to provide non-judgmental and empathetic support to those struggling with mental health issues.



7. Practice self-care.

Supporting someone struggling with mental health can be emotionally taxing, and it is important to practice self-care to avoid burnout. This can include taking breaks when needed, seeking support from friends or a therapist, and engaging in activities that bring you joy and relaxation.

According to a study by Söderberg et al. (2017), self-care is associated with greater resilience and reduced burnout in healthcare professionals who support individuals with mental health issues. The study found that healthcare professionals who practiced self-care reported greater job satisfaction and lower levels of burnout.

8. Avoid giving advice or making assumptions.

It is important to avoid giving advice or making assumptions about someone's mental health struggles. Each individual's experience is unique, and what works for one person may not work for another. It is also important to avoid assuming that you understand what they are going through or that you know what is best for them.

According to a study by Pistrang et al. (2014), providing advice or making assumptions about someone's mental health struggles can be perceived as invalidating and unhelpful. The study found that individuals who received support that was perceived as validating had better mental health outcomes.

9. Offer emotional support.

Offering emotional support can be helpful for someone struggling with mental health. This can include expressing empathy, validating their feelings, and providing words of encouragement. It is important to avoid minimizing their struggles or telling them to "just get over it."

According to a study by Gulliver et al. (2015), emotional support is associated with greater engagement in mental health treatment. The study found that individuals who received emotional support were more likely to attend mental health appointments and participate in treatment.

10. Respect their boundaries.

Respecting someone's boundaries is essential when supporting them through mental health struggles. It is important to avoid pushing them to share more than they are comfortable with or attempting to solve their problems for them. It is also important to respect their privacy and not share their struggles with others without their permission.

According to a study by Wong et al. (2019), respecting boundaries is associated with greater trust and comfort in mental health support. The study found that individuals who felt their boundaries were respected were more likely to seek support in the future.

11. Celebrate progress.

Finally, it is important to celebrate progress when supporting someone struggling with mental health. Recovery is a journey, and each step forward is worth celebrating. This can include acknowledging their successes, offering words of encouragement, and celebrating milestones together.

According to a study by Repper et al. (2015), celebrating progress is associated with greater motivation and engagement in mental health treatment. The study found that individuals who received positive feedback and recognition for their progress were more likely to continue their treatment.



Conclusion:

Supporting someone struggling with mental health can be challenging, but there are many ways to provide effective support. Being available and listening actively, encouraging them to seek professional help, educating yourself about mental health, offering practical support, being patient and understanding, practicing self-care, avoiding giving advice or making assumptions, offering emotional support, respecting their boundaries, and celebrating progress are all important ways to support someone struggling with mental health. By providing effective support, you can help them on their journey toward recovery and well-being.


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